Wanda Cotie (she/her) is a Canadian entrepreneur, sex educator, and thought leader with over 35 years of experience helping people reconnect to their bodies, pleasure, and power. She founded Wicked Wandas Inc.—a pioneer in the adult wellness space. Years later, she created Femme Flexor™, a patented pelvic floor resistance trainer born from her own journey of pain, healing, and self-discovery.

As Wicked Wanda, she has challenged social norms and explored the surprising parallels in power dynamics—how dominance, submission, and balance show up in both intimate and professional spaces. Her story is one of transformation: from early trauma where self-neglect was easy by putting others first, and inviting pleasure and self-love into her life was deeply uncomfortable, to learning how to say NO to things that didn’t serve her, and say YES to new possibilities.

Known for her wild sense of humor and deep curiosity about human behavior, Wanda speaks openly about the challenges of sex, aging, identity, and intimacy. She reminds us that self-love is a practice, not a destination.

Wanda works alongside her daughter Madelaine, who leads education and entertainment at Wicked Wandas. Together, they build business together. They showcase Femme Flexor as an emerging brand, reinventing the age-old kegel weights with fun fitness and functional movement.

Websites: wickedwandas.ca, femmeflexor.com

Instagram: @wickedwandas, @femmeflexor